As a family we decided that we should all drive to the very top of Little Cottonwood Canyon to check out the wildflower festival. The mass fields of wildflowers will probably take a couple more weeks due to the very cold, wet year we have had. Despite this, there were some beautiful, colorful flowers that will probably only exist for a short time. It was also amazing to see all the snow within feet of us on July 30th!
Three weeks old and he can already roll over! Haven't been able to capture the back to front roll yet, but I am hopeful I will catch it soon. He was camera shy about showing off his rolling skills for everyone. It took over 10 times to finally capture it. Whenever we don't want him to roll, he does though.
From BABYCENTER.COM: "At 5 months your baby will probably be able to lift his head, push up on his arms, and arch his back to lift his chest off the ground. He may even rock on his stomach, kick his legs, and swim with his arms. All these exercises help him develop the muscles he needs to roll over in both directions — likely by the time he's about 6 months old."
Our kid decided that he would roll over from stomach to back last week on three separate occasions. When Ashley's parents thought we were ridiculous, he rolled from back to stomach right in front of them, for the first time ever! I am sure the 22 inches of leverage helped him somehow, but REALLY?!!!
Now, at THREE WEEKS, we have to be extremely careful not to set him on couches or beds without blockades in his way. Something tells me we may have our work cut out for us with this kiddo!
Today is my parent’s 47th wedding anniversary. Almost every year in the past, my parents have gone away together somewhere for a weekend to celebrate. Although they cannot be together this year, it is still a celebration. What a testament to my parents that they have been married for so long. What dedication and devotion they both showed to stay together for so long, through all of life’s challenges. I am so grateful for eternal marriage and for the knowledge that my parents are married forever, because of righteous choices that started their life together 47 years ago. One of the greatest gifts I have ever been given was to see my Mother love and revere my Father and my Father to love and revere my Mother. In my life I have learned that love is more often an action than a feeling. The feeling only seems to come after the actions. I saw times where my Mother had to care for my Father and times where my Father had to care for my Mother. In the tender times that have existed in the last month or so, I still see the love that exists in my parent’s marriage. I cannot express my gratitude to my parents for all that they have done to make it together for the last 47 years.
Our little Jonah is finally here! Grandma decided that after a breezy 22 1/2 hours of labor, she would allow him to make his appearance in the world. He showed up at 5:27AM this morning. Mom and baby are doing really well. He weighed in at 8lbs. 3 oz. and was 22 inches long. We couldn’t be happier. He has brought such a peace with him and we can’t wait to take him home. We love you our little Jonah!
(I composed the following poem while we were waiting for Jonah to be born)
Grandma! Grandma! You’ve come back!
I’ve been waiting to see you all day
To feel your hugs and your kisses too
And most of all, to play
Come into my arms, my little one
I’m so glad to hold you again
I sure missed you, my sweet child
Tell me: How have you been?
I’ve been watching from here above
I saw all that you were willing to give
You did so much in your time on earth
I learned from you how I should live
Give one more hug, now let’s play
We can play games or throw a ball
I will read to you, and sing you songs
We’ll take time to do it all!
We’ve now had time to play my child
Come sit on my knee, and let’s talk
Your short time on earth, is about to begin
It’s the place where you’ll play and walk
But, Grandma, you just got here
Can’t I stay for a longer while?
I love to be held, tight in your arms
And I would really miss your smile
I don’t know how I can leave
I just love you so, so much!
I want to be right by your side
To feel your gentle touch
My sweet child, it’s okay
There is no need to cry
You need to live in morality
But this is not goodbye
It will only be a little while
Before we can play some more
I will be here to welcome you home
When you come through the door
Until then, I’ll be in your heart
Watching you grow from above
I’ll walk with you, each new day
I’ll send you all of my love
So you must go, this is your time
There are angels down on earth too
They’ll wipe your tears, and give you comfort
Whenever you’re sad, hurt, or blue
Your Mommy and Daddy are so excited
So many want to give you their love
You even have a couple siblings there
Your family will fit like a glove
Please take with you, all my very best
My husband and family were hard to leave
You’ll bring peace from Father’s home above
And it will help them as they grieve.
When your earth life comes to an end
I’ll be waiting like you were for me
We’ll share some new stories
And play together, throughout all eternity
Now is the time, you must go
I’ll never be too far away
Just follow the path the Savior laid
And you will find your way
Let’s you and I, share one last hug
Before the start of your earthly phase
I’ll be your angel up above
I’ll love you all of your days
As she was passing through the veil, I said a quiet prayer that someone would be there to greet her and lead her back to the Savior. My mind flooded with the image of a little boy rushing up to greet his Grandma, hug her, and pull her by the hand.
I am sure that in the tender mercies of the Lord that my angel Mother and our soon to be born son will get to spend the next couple of days together before his time on earth comes. I hope that she gives him her love and compassion for others. I hope that she gives him her sweet natured spirit and goodness. I hope she teaches him how to quietly serve others as she did, and I hope that she instills in him the importance, and her love for the Gospel the same way that she has to all of us. Lastly, I hope that she teaches him love. The last thing to quit working on her mortal frame was her heart. That big heart that beat so hard for each one of us for so many years. That heart that viewed all of Heavenly Father’s children equally. That heart that poured out so much love, yet still constantly over-flowed.
I miss my Mom so much already, and it will not be the same without her. However, I know that she is with our Heavenly Father now and spending some time with her Grandson as he prepares for this mortal life. This makes me so grateful for the tender mercies of the Lord, grateful for the plan of salvation, and the knowledge that we can all be together again.
Love you Mom!
Okay, so it isn’t midnight. It’s 5:00 am in the morning and I’ve been awake since 2:30 am. Why you ask? Because I have a pair of feet stuck under my rib cage that continuously like to stretch and move. Fortunately for me a rain storm took place around 3:00 am and I wandered outside with my camera to see if I could capture the lightening. No success. One of these days I really need to figure out all of the settings on my camera.
Until then, here are some recent updates:
Treven finally grew his hair out. He looked so handsome and had his first salon hair cut at the age of 7 1/2. Unfortunately, it didn’t last long and is back to being shaved. Doesn’t he look cute?
Ady had her year end dance recital and performed a number to “Cruella De Ville”. She was excited for weeks leading up to the recital and performed the number several times in the living room. She is a very serious performer!
My good friend, Amanda and her family, have been in town this past month giving me the opportunity to take my family to their condo in St. George! Thanks Amanda.
Kent became a human surf board for the weekend.
My parents got a puppy and named him Toby! He is currently being potty trained and learning important things, like his name.
Nesting mode is in full force. Bedrooms are being rearranged and cleaned, baby items are being sorted and put in place, the crib is set up, the swing is set up, and the bassinet is by my bed.
Now all I need is for the little tyke to finish baking. Twelve more days!!!
The High Chair
I plan on being the milkman a la cart if you know what I mean. Can I hold off a good 4 to 6 months to replenish the savings account before buying this gem?
I’m fairly certain my mind is set on a double stroller. I don’t see a point in buying a single stroller when I will need a double stroller in the future. If someone thinks this is a cataclysmic mistake please let me know. I understand I may look a little freakish walking around with only one kid in the stroller but I figure the other seat could be used for my purse, shopping bags, coats and sweaters, a niece or nephew, or one of my girlfriend’s children. Plus who doesn’t need an extra cup holder on the days you need two Diet Cokes?
Strollers make my head spin because there are so many different kinds.
Front to Back ?
Side by Side ?
Stand On Tandem Stroller?
One of my friend's, Leslie, has a Stand On Stroller. She loves her stroller and suggested this for me. I pretended I knew what kind of stroller she was referring to but actually had no clue! (Amanda, don’t tell your sister!) Is this a double stroller? Does your toddler stand on a ledge in the back and hold on to the sides?
What do you think about strollers?
for me to start registering and buying baby gear. Unfortunately, I made the mistake of calling my husband during the middle of the day to discuss what I considered a nugget on KSL.com. I found a unisex infant car seat with two bases for $50. I wanted Kent to shout praise and throw out accolades on my great find. Instead I got a technical conversation about weight limits, rear facing versus front facing, safety laws, and warranties.
Marriage 101: My husband will never be my girlfriend. I should have called a female!
As a result of this conversation, I am taking my baby buying questions to the mattresses as Tom Hanks would say. So please be ready to disclose all your personal thoughts and feelings on a series of blog posts that will be coming your way. Every woman, mother, aunt, girlfriend, and sister please leave your opinion.
Dilemma #1: The Car Seat
Infant ?
Convertible ?
Or Both?
Please note the following assumption: I will have another child in 2-3 years.
Alright, leave your comments!
Are you experiencing constant headaches, nosebleeds, swelling of the abdominal region, restless legs, acid indigestion, frequent urination, sleepiness, insomnia, gas, lack of iron, constipation, lower-back pain, bleeding gums, weight gain, irritability, crankiness, emotional highs and lows, followed by a waddle in your stride?
If so, these could be signs indicating you are six months pregnant and ready to hoist your white flag and surrender.
Tips and advice on how to survive the last trimester with grace and human dignity are gladly welcome!
At 25 weeks I officially have my first baby bump! I have worked hard for this bump and I’m happy to show it. The first trimester I lost weight and was skinny as a pole thanks to my daily up chucks. Even my mom was worried about my lack of curves and supplied me with several bottles of Ensure. Then one day it happened. Just like everyone told me it would. I woke up to a round tight stomach.
I now feel I can legitimately justify things due to the bump. I can say things like, “I’m hungry, this bump needs food” or “This bump is growing and making me tired. I need a nap”, or “Look at this bump, I need new clothes” and “I’m crying. Look I have a bump”.
Honestly, isn’t this a pretty cute bump?!!!
Despite some set-backs, Mom looks good. Less than four days after getting released from the hospital, she was readmitted. She had developed an infection and her pancreas was leaking. The doctor told us this could be possible. He compared stitching up a pancreas to stitching up a stick of butter. She stayed at the hospital for about a week. They immediately stopped tube feedings and started doing IV feedings through a PICC line. After this second stay at the hospital, they moved her to a skilled nursing center. She will hopefully be done with IV feedings and return to tube feedings within the next 7 days. She hopes to come home a couple of days after that. Despite being in great pain, she is sweet to us each time we visit. I am sure she is feeling some depression and anxiety, but only shows concern and love for each one of us. We are extremely thankful for the kind words spoken, and prayers offered in her behalf.
My Mother is an amazing woman. She is very artistic. She has painted every painting that hangs in my parent’s home except one.
She raised all seven of us well, and I am not sure she had a lot to work with. She continually teaches us the Gospel and a love for others. She taught us that Heavenly Father loves each of His children, and no one was created any better than another. My parents have been there for each of us, despite so many children, and so many of life’s challenges. My Mom connects with each one of us in a personal, special way, even though we can be so different.
I now see the way she loves and cares for her many daughter-in-laws and her 20 grandchildren. She did not raise these women and she did not bear these children, but she loves and nurtures each as her own. She has never been selfish with those she loves, and she wants nothing more than for us to be surrounded by others who love us as she does. It means so much to me when I see the way that she nurtures and loves my wife and children. She is always worried about the happiness of others.
My Mom is not a public figure by any means. In fact, she probably prefers to stay near the shadows. She quietly serves people and gets to know people in a very personal way. She can see the human heart more than almost anyone I know, and seems to sense the feelings of others.
Each holiday, big or small, my Mom spends countless hours designing and creating a card for each of our families. Each one is beautiful and has a sweet message or poem. Below are just a few that we have received.
She hurried to finish and mail off this Valentine’s Day card the first week of February. I received it the day after she was admitted to the hospital for surgery for stomach cancer. In the surgery, they removed her stomach, her spleen, and one-fourth of her pancreas. When I saw the card laying in the mailbox, I cried. I could not believe that my angel Mother, in extreme pain, could only think of her children and grandchildren. When I mentioned it to my Dad, he said that she couldn’t sleep because she was so sick. I found out that she had made the cards in-between running to the bathroom to vomit.
Whenever I have visited her, I have asked her how she was doing. She has given a very brief response and then asked how Ashley is feeling, how the pregnancy is going, and how we are doing. Another time, she interrupted me and asked if we were excited to be having a boy. She is now home from the hospital and seems to be doing very well. She will start chemo and radiation therapy in about a month. My heart aches to think of her in any pain, but she is one of the strongest women I know, and I am extremely hopeful. She is a fighter and she has already overcome things that I thought were impossible at the time.
I am so grateful for my Mother. I love and appreciate her more than words can say. Through this tough time, we will all be here for her, just as she has always been there for us.
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